A monthly encounter
The room is openThe most powerful woman in the room is the one who hears from God.
You believe He speaks. You are just not sure it was Him.
The Closet Collective is where women learn to live from what God is forming in private, in decisions, relationships, career, business, leadership, boundaries, calling, and obedience.One monthly theme. Two live Collective rooms. Private Q&A. Real-life application.
$25 a month
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Since 2017, more than 3,500 women have learned to hear His voice, from London and Amsterdam to Lagos, Accra, Kampala, Taipei and Phoenix.
Where you start
You heard something. Then you talked yourself out of it.
So you ask everyone else first. The group chat. The podcast. The woman online who looks like she has it figured out.
Where you finish
You hear Him for yourself.
About the job offer. The business. The marriage. The money. The thing you keep circling at midnight.
You stop copying.
No more carbon copies of somebody else. No more comparing. No more moving before you are formed.
You decide.
Without needing me, or her, or anyone standing in between you and God.
01 · Why I Built This
Women keep asking me the same question.
How do I hear God about my walk with Him? About my career? My business? My own mind?
I could not send them anywhere. You have a place for your faith. You have a place for your career. You have never had one place for both.
What you asked me for did not exist. So I built it. One place to hear Him about all of it: the promotion, the money, the marriage, the silence.
I show up live. I answer women by name. I do not disappear after you pay. That is why they stay.
In their words
“God spoke to me during my 15 minutes about my finances. I started tithing faithfully. Two weeks later the hospital reduced my son’s surgery estimate and told me I would not have to pay the deductible that day.”
Memoree Burge
“I have autism and ADHD and I let those diagnoses define what I can and cannot do. I put on the tunic of Trust. Those tattered garments can go in the trash.”
Dawn Caffarella-Lovato
“I am not a dumping ground. Everyone’s emergency is not mine. When God disconnects you from certain people, believe Him the first time.”
Patricia Miller
02 · What We Work On
Every month, we name one enemy of hearing God.
There is a reason you cannot hear Him as clearly as you want to, and it is not that you are doing it wrong. Something is in the way. The invisible world is real, and there are real enemies that keep a woman from hearing God, and keep her circling the same place in her walk, her work and her mind.
So every month, we name one. We call it by name, because a thing you can name is a thing you can take off.
Each enemy comes in the form of a garment, something you did not know you put on. This month it is noise. You are not far from Him. You are overdressed, and the layers have been talking louder than He is.
The way out
Uncover it with Holy Spirit → Take it off → Put on what is true → Hear Him → Move
By the end of the month you are not still thinking about the enemy. You have taken it off. You can hear Him in that one area. You leave dressed, with a way to walk it out that holds after the month ends.
03 · How a month works
One theme. Two live rooms. One month to live it.
You do not need four new classes every month. You need enough teaching to understand what is happening, and enough room to apply it to your actual life.
The Collective Session
Second Sunday · Live
One live teaching each month on the month’s garment. What it is, where it came from, and how it has been shaping the way you hear, decide, lead, work, and obey. Not four classes. Not a new curriculum every week. One issue worth understanding deeply.
The Back of the Closet · Live
Fourth Sunday · Live
Members submit real decisions, questions, and situations before the call. A few are selected and we walk through them together. Not so someone else decides for you. So you can see the situation clearly.
Keep. What is already clear?
Clear. What noise, fear, assumption, or pressure needs less access?
Repair. What actually requires action?
Finish. What is still unfinished and taking up space?
Protect. What needs more time, prayer, wisdom, information, or restraint?
The Cloth
Throughout the month · Recorded
The student-only podcast. Your actual question becomes the episode, so you get an answer in your headphones on your own time. Nothing to attend.
Monday · The Mirror
Every Monday · In the room
One question to hold up to your week. You answer it in the community, in a sentence or a paragraph, whatever is true. This is where the month stops being a teaching and starts being your life.
Thursday · The Practice
Every Thursday · In the room
One small thing to carry before the week ends. Not a challenge. Not a streak. One practice, sized for a woman with a job and a household.
Two rooms a month. Two touches a week. Nothing to keep up with.
04 · The Year Ahead
Twelve months. One question, asked twelve ways.
You are not buying a library. You are walking a year, one garment at a time. Here is one month, so you can feel how it moves.
September
This month's enemy of hearing God
Overdressed in Noise
Your mind will not quiet, and you have been calling that a faith failure. It is not. Somewhere you started paying for the noise, one notification, one podcast, one open tab at a time, until the still small voice was buried under all of it. This month we bring the body down before we ask the mind to listen, and the quiet comes back. He was never underneath the wind by accident.
How the month moves
Notice. The garment is named. You start seeing where it has been showing up all along.
The Collective Session. We teach it live, once, and go deep.
The Practice. Monday you hold it up. Thursday you do something with it.
The Back of the Closet · Live. You bring one real situation. Keep, clear, repair, finish, protect.
Eleven more like this, one a month, each chosen for where you are. We do not hand you the whole year at once. We walk it.
What else we take off
Urgency · Approval · Fear · Performance · Comparison
05 · In Her Words
06 · The Women Who Stayed
One has been here since 2019. They are both still here.
Anyone can show you a good first month. Here is what it looks like when women do not leave.
My husband and daughter died one year, one month, one day apart. I was broken. After ninety days in the wilderness, fasting and praying about my next move, Holy Spirit showed up through Caren with an invitation to the Closet. Her fifteen minutes with Holy Spirit watered my garden and brought life back to my prayer life. No alarm set. I just ask Holy Spirit to wake me so we can talk. I get excited to hear what He says next.
Dr Geneva Stanley
Member since 2019 · Closet Coach
I applied to a graduate program and was told a decision would not come until March. God moved in three days. Acceptance letter, MSW program, done.
Bridgette Jones
Member since 2023 · Closet Coach
In Their Own Voices
Hear it from them.
Two women, unscripted, on what changed.
Kristin White
Member since 2022
Sharise Chatfield
Member since 2022
07 · Who This Room Is For
Read this honestly. It is not for everyone.
This is for you if
✓You talk to Him all the time and hear nothing back.
✓You think you heard something, then talk yourself out of it because you are afraid of getting Him wrong.
✓You cannot tell His voice from the noise, or from your own thoughts.
✓You would say yes, you are growing, and your honest answer for prayer is still Sunday only.
✓You are the strong one for everybody while you are quietly fighting your own fires.
✓Nobody ever taught you how. You have been guessing.
This is not for you if
×You came for hype. There is no stage in here.
×You want to fake it until you make it. We are doing the opposite of that.
×You are looking for somebody impressive. I do not have that to give you.
×You want another course to collect. This one asks you to write the honest answer down.
08 · The Choice
You hear God in the stillness, and distraction is the enemy of stillness.
Do not be the woman who decides noise was worth paying for, over a place that helps you slow down and hear God.
The Collective is a capsule wardrobe. One garment a month, chosen on purpose, that actually fits you.
$25 a month. Stay while the room is serving your season.
When it has done its work, you can go. The door does not lock behind you.
09 · What happens next
Your first seven days.
No guessing where to start. Here is exactly what your first week looks like.
Day one
Enter the room
Log in. Read this month’s theme. Save the two live dates. You do not need to go back and catch up on old content. Start where we are.
Day two
Begin with The Closet
If you are new, open the four-week foundation and begin Week One. Already completed it? Do not start over. Come directly into the current Collective conversation.
Day three
Listen to The Cloth
Choose one episode that sounds like a question you have asked yourself. You do not need to listen to the whole archive. One question is enough.
Day four
Meet the month
Read this month’s Mirror question and sit with it before you answer. The goal is not to post something impressive. Notice what it brings to the surface.
Day five
Practice one thing
Take this week’s Practice into your actual life. One question. One boundary. One conversation. One pause before you say yes. Application over information.
Day six
Bring the real question
If you are carrying a decision, submit it for The Back of the Closet · Live. Career. Relationship. Business. Boundary. Calling. Something you cannot seem to get clear about. You do not have to figure it out before you bring it.
Day seven
You are in the room
Come to the next live Collective Session or The Back of the Closet · Live. Camera optional. You do not have to talk. You do not have to prove you belong. Just come in.
By the end of your first week
You will know where to start, what we are working on, where to ask your question, when we meet live, and how to take part without falling behind.
There is nothing to catch up on. Enter the conversation happening now.
The room is open
Take your seat.
✓The Gathering Place: the Closet community itself, where more than 1,200 women are already building their secret place. Yours the day you walk in
✓The Closet Classroom: the complete four-week path to building your secret place and learning to be still with Him. Yours the day you walk in
✓The Gathering: the live monthly return for women of The Closet. Scripture, prayer, reflection, testimony, shared practice
✓The Collective Session: live monthly teaching on the month’s garment
✓The Back of the Closet · Live: live monthly application. You bring the real situation and we work it through together
✓The Cloth: the student-only podcast, your questions answered
✓The Collective community: private circles for every area of life, including career, business and calling
✓The Closet Lookbook: yours to download and keep
Most women pay more than this for one hour of coaching. This is one focused theme a month, two live rooms, the podcast, and the whole Closet foundation underneath it.
Matthew 6:6
The Closet is included
A real place. A protected time. A practice you know how to return to.
When you join The Collective, you also receive The Closet, the four-week experience that helps you build your secret place, protect fifteen minutes with God, and establish a rhythm you know how to return to.
These are real spaces women inside The Closet actually built. Not perfect rooms. Not staged moments. Real places where prayer was given somewhere to live.
Do not copy the room. Catch the courage to begin.
The room is not the miracle. The return is.
You are not joining to consume more content. You are joining to build a place where your relationship with God can live.
Before You Go
A few honest answers.
Do I have to attend everything live?
No. The two Collective rooms are live, the podcast is recorded, and everything is saved for you. Come to what you can, and carry the rest into your week on your own time.
How much time does this take?
Fifteen minutes a day, and one live room a month if that is all you have. More if you want it. This was built for a woman with a job and a household, not for a woman with an empty calendar.
What if I fall behind?
There is nothing to fall behind on. It is fifteen minutes a day and one thing to carry each month. You cannot do this wrong.
Is this for me if I am not new to God?
Yes. This room is built for the woman who already loves Him and is still quietly asking, was that Him, or was that me.
Do I need to be in the Closet first?
No. The Collective includes it. The Gathering Place and The Closet Classroom open the day you walk in, so you are not choosing between two rooms. You can still start in The Closet on its own and come here later. You will not pay for the same room twice.
How is this different from the Closet community?
It is not separate from it. The Closet is the foundation, pay what you can, where you build your secret place with God and learn to be still with Him. The Collective is that same foundation plus the next room: the one skill, hearing His voice, carried into every area of your life, your work, your money, your home. It is live, it is interactive, and I am in the room with you.
Can I try it before I commit?
There is no trial. There is also no contract. One month is twenty-five dollars, and if it is not for you, you stop.
What if I cannot afford it?
Then start in the Closet, which is pay what you can, and come here when you are ready. Nothing you need in order to hear God is behind this door.
Is everything included?
Yes. Everything listed above comes with your membership. Now and then I open a Closet Intensive, a short deep dive on one specific thing, and those are offered separately. Nothing you need is behind another door.
What happens to my access if I stop?
Your access ends when your membership does. Anything you downloaded stays yours, including the Closet Lookbook. And the door is not locked behind you. Women leave for a season and come back.
Is The Closet Companion included?
No. The Companion is the twelve-month guided journal and it is bought on its own. Everything on this page works without it.
Is this therapy or counseling?
No. This is spiritual formation, taught pastorally. It is not therapy, counseling or clinical care, and it is not a replacement for them. If you are carrying something that needs a professional, let it be cared for there too. You are welcome in this room either way.
What if I need to stop?
Then you stop, with no contract and no guilt. This is a room you finish, not a subscription you get trapped in. Most women stay because they want to, and some have been with me more than six years.
You already hear Him. This is the room where you learn to live like it.
Into the decision. The conversation. The work. The week you are actually living.
Take your seat